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Jill and I met in 1991 when she was going out with one of my friends ( at the time ). I was amazed at how smart, pretty and mature she was for her age. She was 14 and I was 18. I was immediately attracted to her when I first saw her, but unfortunately she was going out with my friend and I thought she was a bit too young. As the years passed I found out and noticed her boyfriend was treating her terribly which bothered me more than you could imagine. He ( her boyfriend ) joined job corps. in Maine and went to live there. He came back once in awhile to visit and we'd all hang out together. When he was away Jill and I would hang out. Sometimes we would go to the movies, malls and arcades....... but I never made any advances toward her or never made any physical contact, after all she was still dating my friend who was in Maine most of the time. As time passed my other friends ( Mike M, Scott C and Brian B ) noticed how Jill's boyfriend was treating her ( never letting her make her own decisions, pulling her by her hand in the mall to go to stores he only wanted to go to, giving her the angry silent treatment when he didn't get his own way.. etc.. etc... etc.. ). My other friends said I should go out with Jill because we got along so good. Every time we hung out we would end up at the end of the night parked in front of her house and we would talk for a long time, sometimes even for hours. A majority of these conversations were about how badly her boyfriend would treat her and how I haven't found my perfect match yet. I told her she is the perfect girlfriend and that he is lucky he hasn't been dumped yet. Right before Christmas Jill broke up with him and he threatened to kill himself by opening the door of the car they were in while it was driving (her mother drove them because he didn't have a license yet), but he didn't do it, he just cried and begged her to take him back. While hanging out with her boyfriend and my other friends, I stupidly told him he has to change and treat her better. I said for him to compliment her on how good she looks, make her laugh, ask how her day was, make her something to eat, hold doors open for her, ask what she wants to watch on TV (not to hog the TV and channel surf for himself), get up and get her a drink from the kitchen, let her sit in the best chair in the house, surprise her with a gift... etc..etc. Well he took my advice but it backfired and Jill noticed he wasn't acting like himself, it was almost as if he was scripted and reading. Also I'm sure it didn't help that he said " You look really pretty today " when he was on the phone with her??? I think she thought that was kind of weird. WHAT THE HELL WAS I DOING TRYING TO GET HIM BACK TOGETHER WITH HER??? Jill took him back for a very short time and in one of our conversations we had (while he was in Maine) I told her she should really break up with him. I couldn't stand to see her sad. Sometimes we would talk about devious ways to scare him off (can't explain this on the site, ask us in person about it). The final break up happened and of course he was devastated and kept trying to call her. While hanging out with him and my friends down in Scott C's basement, he was telling us Jill just broke up with him then he turned towards me and said " You stay away from her! ". I thought about how bad he treated her and it made me want to go out with her and make her happy.


	WELCOME \| home WELCOME \| Video Game Massacre \| Scavenger Hunts \| Halloween Parties \| Hall of Fame ( all events ) \| Misc. Events \| Possible Events \| About Us \| Contact Us \| Other Sites About Us Jill and I met in 1991 when she was going out with one of my friends ( at the time ). I was amazed at how smart, pretty and mature she was for her age. She was 14 and I was 18. I was immediately attracted to her when I first saw her, but unfortunately she was going out with my friend and I thought she was a bit too young. As the years passed I found out and noticed her boyfriend was treating her terribly which bothered me more than you could imagine. He ( her boyfriend ) joined job corps. in Maine and went to live there. He came back once in awhile to visit and we'd all hang out together. When he was away Jill and I would hang out. Sometimes we would go to the movies, malls and arcades....... but I never made any advances toward her or never made any physical contact, after all she was still dating my friend who was in Maine most of the time. As time passed my other friends ( Mike M, Scott C and Brian B ) noticed how Jill's boyfriend was treating her ( never letting her make her own decisions, pulling her by her hand in the mall to go to stores he only wanted to go to, giving her the angry silent treatment when he didn't get his own way.. etc.. etc... etc.. ). My other friends said I should go out with Jill because we got along so good. Every time we hung out we would end up at the end of the night parked in front of her house and we would talk for a long time, sometimes even for hours. A majority of these conversations were about how badly her boyfriend would treat her and how I haven't found my perfect match yet. I told her she is the perfect girlfriend and that he is lucky he hasn't been dumped yet. Right before Christmas Jill broke up with him and he threatened to kill himself by opening the door of the car they were in while it was driving (her mother drove them because he didn't have a license yet), but he didn't do it, he just cried and begged her to take him back. While hanging out with her boyfriend and my other friends, I stupidly told him he has to change and treat her better. I said for him to compliment her on how good she looks, make her laugh, ask how her day was, make her something to eat, hold doors open for her, ask what she wants to watch on TV (not to hog the TV and channel surf for himself), get up and get her a drink from the kitchen, let her sit in the best chair in the house, surprise her with a gift... etc..etc. Well he took my advice but it backfired and Jill noticed he wasn't acting like himself, it was almost as if he was scripted and reading. Also I'm sure it didn't help that he said " You look really pretty today " when he was on the phone with her??? I think she thought that was kind of weird. WHAT THE HELL WAS I DOING TRYING TO GET HIM BACK TOGETHER WITH HER??? Jill took him back for a very short time and in one of our conversations we had (while he was in Maine) I told her she should really break up with him. I couldn't stand to see her sad. Sometimes we would talk about devious ways to scare him off (can't explain this on the site, ask us in person about it). The final break up happened and of course he was devastated and kept trying to call her. While hanging out with him and my friends down in Scott C's basement, he was telling us Jill just broke up with him then he turned towards me and said " You stay away from her! ". I thought about how bad he treated her and it made me want to go out with her and make her happy. WELCOME \| Video Game Massacre \| Scavenger Hunts \| Halloween Parties \| Hall of Fame ( all events ) \| Misc. Events \| Possible Events \| About Us \| Contact Us \| Other Sites Please sign our guest book and let us know what you think View My Guestbook Sign My Guestbook healeyparties@hotmail.com Please visit my two artwork shops (click on the banners below)